Orgasm: quotes
American sex researcher and psychotherapist Leonore Tiefer once said, "Orgasm is only to let you know that sex is over." - The orgasm is there to know that the sex is over.
That this is not everything is shown by honest, sometimes even poetic statements by women and men about orgasm, supplemented by analyzes by specialists. They come from the "arte" -Themenabend to orgasm.
Quotes from the documentary "The Little Death: The Female Orgasm."
How do women experience orgasm today? - Anna and PaulinaARTE broadcast on October 22, 2006 at 20.10 clock: The little death
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"For a woman, it's important to discover the desire for oneself. This experience can then bring her into the love life of the couple. If the woman knows how her body works, it can enrich sex for two. "(Dr. Pierre Desvaux, Andrologist and Sexologist)
"Sexual fantasies stimulate our erotic imagination; they are a good starting point to enjoy sexuality. On the condition that one does not feel bad about these fantasies; because they can often have something disreputable. "(Dr. Desvaux)
"The multiple orgasm ... I know it so that I can not get down. I have an orgasm and then it continues ... It does not stop. You're right in the middle of it and it starts all over again ... "(Anna)
"I think that's not so much the length, but much more the thickness of the penis is crucial. "(Robin)
"... Studies prove that with strong, well-developed pelvic floor muscles ... The orgasm probability can approximately triple. "(Karl Stifter, psychologist and sexologist)
The G-spot
"There is indeed an area in the inner vaginal wall, which is very sensitive to irritation. It is located two or three centimeters deep in the vagina, between vagina, uterus and urethra. "(Dr. Desvaux)
"Female ejaculation"
"The fluid is a kind heavily diluted urine; but it is by no means as yellow as urine, but transparent as water. There is also a secretion from the glands to the right and left of the urethra, whose tissue is comparable to that of the prostate in men. The secretion contains chemical substances that are not present in the urine. One can therefore assume that women who have ejaculation experience a particularly intense orgasm. "(Dr. Desvaux)
"The female ejaculation may be a sign of a particularly intense orgasm; but you can not say, to every great orgasm belongs an ejaculation ... after all, not every woman has; that's something special. "(Maïté Sauvet, neurobiologist)
"I know that I orgasm make a somewhat stupid impression. I scream and curl up. That may not be great if someone is watching you. I have the feeling that my inner being is turned outward. That's why I can only have sex with someone I may not necessarily love, but for whom I have deep feelings. I have to feel good and have confidence in the person. "(Robin)
"I got him on the Penetration; I was upstairs. There was also this feeling that I dominate the action. It felt like I had a battery in me that gave me electric shocks. And my heart was beating wildly. It was like a miracle. As if the whole belly would open. It was wonderful. Those who have never experienced it, is really to be regretted. "(Jocelyne, about her first orgasm, which she experienced at 46)
Quotes from the documentary "The highest of feelings. The male orgasm."
Artist and painter Antoine is for a sexual revolution of men.ARTE broadcast on October 22, 2006 at 10:55 pm: The highest of sentiments
© ARTE FIs male pleasure really as mechanical as it is often portrayed? What do the men say about that? And: have you ever asked them the question?
"The question is more like this: whether the man cares for the lust of the woman or not. If so, good, if not, bad. But the other way round the question is never asked. I've never heard, "And how is it for you?" or if so, then totally rare. "(a man)
The masturbation
"There are two ways to satisfy oneself. The first is to give in to pressure, these men want to be done with it as soon as possible, that's just to relax. On the other hand, there are connoisseurs, they want to play, they want the game of masturbation to last, they can stimulate for a long time without ejaculating. I would say that's the 'right kind'. "(Dr. Pierre Desvaux, Andrologue and Sexual Scientist)
"I'm not really the guy who masturbates, I miss the human warmth, the contact with the other person, as well as the pleasure the partner feels. "(Cédric)
The first time
"I really wanted to experience something strong, something that surpasses the simple pleasure of self-gratification, for I remember quite well this first stage of pleasure, that was not intoxicating, this bodily pleasure, I mean. But it was really nice to share something with someone. "(Antoine)
"Girls, of course, have difficulties in their first relationships, but for young men is not that different. The sensations and feelings are often not satisfactory in the beginning. But they often do not dare to talk about it, the girls' problems seem more familiar, the men are expected to know. But they do not even know if it's satisfying because they have no clue. This is not easy for the man, so to speak a problem of his lust, this is almost outrageous, because in a way the men pretend that they are naturally satisfied, they experience their sexuality restricted, thinking that everything is already pre-programmed and there is nothing to discover, which absolutely does not correspond to the facts. "(Maité Sauvet, neurobiologist)
"The effusion takes place, but one feels at that moment still no desire. Totally wrong. It's the same with men, not just women. "(Cédric)
Premature or rapid ejaculation
"That's also a burden because you lose your identity. You do not remember where you stand as a man, you lose your personality. Also, the motivation is affected, in very different areas, at work and elsewhere, you lose the desire of many things, which is hard to bear. "(Patient)
"Men have a sexuality of sensual perception, that is, seeing and hearing play an essential role. When the woman feels pleasure, it excites the man cerebrally, which stimulates him, which affects his limbic system, the emotional part of his nervous system. This triggers a veritable chain reaction, which leads to an increase in pleasure. Everything happens in the brain, the largest male genital organ. "(Dr. Sylvain Mimoun, Andrologue and Sexual Scientist)
"When a man meets a woman and the sexual act is imminent, he has to show performance, because he has no choice. Whether he does it or not is another matter, but he knows he has to perform and that alone puts him under pressure. "(Patrick)
"An orgasm is not limited to ejaculation. All the way there, knowing what the other likes, sharing, body contact, erogenous zones. An increase in pleasure. "(Henry)
"What impressed and shaped me most from the physical sensation, is the fellatio. The feeling, the head explodes. For me, this is an orgasm that far exceeds the penetration of a vagina. "(Mossen)
"If you do not love your partner, then you really just want to get up after the orgasm and disappear on the spot. "(Mossen)
"What really matters is that both partners are on the same" wavelength ". If both really want the same, it can only be nice. And this is exactly where the difference is when men describe that they have sex alone out of a drive or because they are in love. Even if it is just a temporary infatuation. For if they have a strong relationship, then sexuality is experienced 10 times more intense, because there are emotions behind it, the act is no longer just technical or mechanical. "(Dr. Mimoun)
