Study shows that men annoy women more than children
The net goes crazy, news rolls over, gender researchers scream. And all because of a "news", which is really not at all. Researchers have found that men are the biggest stress factor for women. Even before children and household. Well so what. Is this anybody surprising?
What it hooks
Guilt, according to the study, is the unwillingness of the men to take care of the household. At least the women feel that way. Not that the offspring would be much more helpful, but the indulgence towards their own children seems to be fundamentally greater than that towards the man. Could be because children are small. And because they know that they will eventually fill their own shack. The man is a bit different. He stays. At best.
With which we can recall
By the way, men are not a bit stressed by women. At least not when everything is peaceful. But we can really call it back when we argue with them. That's what their stress level, according to science, can quickly skyrocket. Well, if that makes sense to give him even adrenaline, if you are already completely unnerved, it's a question. But are there better solutions?
The key to misfortune is called "Mother Gathering"
Finally, a quick look in front of your own door. Yes, you could also go away a bit. For many women, the "lazy man" is a homemade problem. The inability to give child and household responsibilities is referred to by experts as "mother gathering." That's common. But if we always watch women with eagle eyes, how man deals with the child, on how many degrees he puts the machine underwear or if even the farthest corner of the far corner is perfectly sucked, this does not necessarily lead to more sense of responsibility in the partner. The more we act as guardians of the perfect household, our men will retire. The principle also has a name, namely: All seats are taken. In other words, one does not take up any space in the relationship that is already occupied. Incidentally, this is in every area of the relationship. Anyone who has a Reichsbedenkenträger as a partner, thereby becomes carefree. People with chaotic partners are getting neater. And people who have partners who find the household particularly important ... well, you understand.
The solution is so simple
If you know the principle, you can also use it for yourself. For example, just put your feet up, read the newspaper and occupy the place "lazy partner". Maybe it works and he sees that the place on the vacuum cleaner would still be free ... Just give it a try. And then just do not complain about the far corner of the far corner. You know. Mother Gathering and such.
