Attention! Singles should avoid this dating mistake in the "Cuffing Season"
Every year, towards the end of October, when the days are getting shorter again, the world gets colder and the shoulders tightened by constantly pulling up a dangerous season for singles, More and more frequently, they are forced to squat in their homes and watch Netflix rather than just go out and enjoy their freedom. The first invitations to Christmas parties are coming in and with them the question: "Aaaaand? Are you bringing anybody with you?"The poor singles do everything to make" no, only me "sound happy and easy, but most fail because they have no one to massage their tense shoulders ...
The loneliness comes with the "Cuffing Season" ...
What I may now have pointed out is a phenomenon that some psychologists associate with the "Cuffing Season," the "handcuffed season" (why handcuffs come soon). During this period, she falls on the nasty months between October and March, singles are apparently at particular risk to develop feelings of loneliness and desperately want a relationship? even those who have just enjoyed their single existence in September, happy and carefree.
No wonder: It's cold, you often squat alone in the shack, bake cookies for a person is stupid? even the most confident single can think about it. Then the many family reunions, where the down to earth cousin proudly presents her newborn while "only" reporting on the last backpacking tour of Scotland? not easy. And not a few singles should be tempted by this pressure to make a devastating mistake ...
Too fast, too much
Which brings us to the handcuffs! In the "Cuffing Season", which is noted in the "Urban Dictionary" since 2011, affected singles plunge into the Dating? and with the "first-best" in a relationship. According to Facebook, in no time does relationship status change so much from "single" to "in relationship" as in the dreaded handcuff period. Problem: Lots of people hanging out with somebody in the dark season go too fast and tie up too fast. In the spring, not only the angry awakening, but also the difficult question follows: How do I get out of the number again as clean as possible?
Therefore, the advice to all singles: Of course there is nothing against going during the "Cuffing Season" on dating and falling in love. However, we can, especially in this time, as a precaution to hold back a bit and refrain from directly binding ourselves to a new swarm, So quitting and contracting the lease may not be the best idea. After all, we can do that just as well in the summer if it really fits. In addition: A little warming up in winter can also give us a flirtatious ...
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