Dispute in the furniture store? Totally good for the relationship!
Darling, we have to go back to IKEA.? For some partners alone this sentence is enough to pack a small trolley at record speed, grab the passport and briefly dive for a few months. Can one understand somehow also somehow. Anyone who has been walking through the electronic furniture-sliding door knows that one usually does not leave it at all conciliatory. Often you got so excited about the type of sofa or bedside lamp that you want to submit the divorce papers directly.
Furniture is an expression of our personality. And if our counterpart the lamp? Totally bleak? and the sofa? way too staid? we judge that as an attack on ourselves. "Like, I'm boring?!?!?", then thinks our poor, hurt ego. Therefore, we start out of a defense mechanism to insult the other as well. "You want the pillows? They are as stuffy as your uncle Ernst", so we fire back full cannon. And BÄM, the good plan is to build a common nest where you can be happy and content for decades to go.
Who thinks now: Hahaha, me old rascal Avoid the Relationship Mienenfeld furniture store and instead order the furniture with a click of the sofa, which only forgets a trifle: Such a dispute is ideal, finally to break down relational stress. So it definitely has something to cleanse, if you at IKEA, furniture Höffner or Bolia the opinion tilled and peppers piled around the ears. So one finally comes to loudly articulate his dissatisfaction, neglected needs and desires. Do you usually rarely, right?
It does not matter if you totally forget to agree on the new sofa set. If you go back in a few weeks. And if it is only for steam release.
