You feel neglected by him? You can do that!
What do you do if you are only breathing air for your own partner? Famous example is singer Sarah Lombardi, who according to her own account has gone astray because she felt neglected by her Pietro. But it does not have to come that far - with these tips you will get more attention from your friend.
What is important to you?
First, your friend must even realize that he is neglecting you or that you are feeling unnoticed. Often men do not even notice it and therefore have no incentive to change anything in the relationship. So take time to talk and tell him how you feel right now. What wishes do you have? What is important to you in the relationship? Stay with I-messages. Instead of "You never have time for me", say love "I wish that we spend more time together ".
Which examples can you bring?
Maybe your friend is going to do it "But we do not spend a lot of time together, we are always together" dismiss. Here you should bring a few examples, when exactly you would have wanted more time with him. "Two days ago, when you left immediately after dinner, I would like to ...", Based on concrete situations, your partner will realize more quickly: Oh, I really did not have much time!
What suggestions do you have?
What exactly can your friend do to improve the situation? Do you have suggestions? Be as specific as possible. How many evenings a week do you want to spend with your sweetheart? Can you arrange a "Date Day" during the week? How can he better support you? Are you introducing a regular couple ritual? Ask also your partner to develop ideas. It's important that he is as confident in your "plan" as you are. Otherwise he probably will not change his behavior.
What are the consequences of his behavior?
You do not have to talk about separation right away, but say quite frankly what it does to you when you feel neglected and what consequences this has on your relationship. You'll quickly notice if your partner is shocked and willing to change, or indifferent. In the latter case, you should send him into the desert anyway!
Where can you find distraction?
Try not to be dependent on the attention of your partner and seek contact with other people: friends, family, colleagues ... take the initiative and suggest joint activities. So you strengthen your self-confidence and go more into the "crisis talk" with your friend. A nice side effect is that it may make you more interesting again for your friend when you are socially active. But beware, do not tap into the Sarah trap and do not look for confirmation from other men. It's just a matter of decency before to end the current relationship.
Does not everything help?
If your partner continues to pay little attention to you, there is only one consequence: draw a line and end the relationship, Even when it's tough. After all, you deserve better than a man who does not appreciate you!
