What is CFNM?
CFNM or CMFM sounds cryptic at first, but in its phrased form makes sense "Clothed Female Naked Male" or "Clothed Male Naked Female".Dressed Woman Naked Man "/" Naked Woman Clothed Man ", It describes a sex trend that is pretty easy for the untrained fetishist to try. Here you will find out what is behind it.
Ever since Fifty Shades of Gray, more and more 'laymen' dare to approach fetishes. For example, BDSM has become discourse and socially acceptable. In contrast to the book or the movie, the women want to not only submit, but the mighty part. This CFNM is particularly well suited. In addition, you can try it without much effort, if it is for you or not.
CFNM: How does it work?
With CFNM / CMNF, you do not need more than yourself and your partner and basically the clothes you have. In the common form CFNM (Clothed Female Naked Male), the woman literally has the pants on. The man bares completely while the woman remains fully dressed. This may sound a bit impractical for lovemaking, but intercourse itself is secondary. CFNM is one fetish, the distributed roles and who has something creates a power gap.
CMNF: The game with power and violent expressions
The woman who wears her clothes also has power, while the bared man is bared in two ways: He is naked and vulnerable, submissive. The power precipitated alone already makes the fetish, but you can also incorporate it into sex. Thus, the attracted part can take on a voyeuristic role and / or give instructions to the exposed part what he or she has to do.
CFNM is a predominantly male fetish. Although there are also women who are not averse to this, but in men, this desire for submission is widespread. There are different characteristics of this fetish. So go with the exposure also some fantasies that can be described differently. In most cases a man is alone among many women. These include such fantasies:
- A man has to strip himself before a women's round and satisfy himself to orgasm ("The humiliated")
- A man has to be in a women's round, for example bare at a coffee party and sexually satisfy each one under the table with mouth and hands, without being self-paced ("The Abused")
- In a high expression of the fetish, men, in these examples, want to be laughed at or ridiculed by the women
If the fetish is not too strong, that alone is enough Game with dominance, Because that's the lovely thing about CFNM. By a simple gesture, such as exposing his body, the man usually goes into a submissive role that is completely subject to the woman. CFNM is not about daring experiments, it's not about experiencing the eroticizing effects of pain, but about creating and maintaining an erotic tension with power and dominance.
Of course, everyone has to decide for themselves whether that would be something for them. There are many other sex trends. What do you think about Cyber Sex, Chemsex, Chuckold, Karezza or Kunyaza? If that's too much for you, then you can also enjoy slow sex, flower sex, petting, necking and tantra yoga.
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