"Well rattle rack, salad for you?" - Bodyshaming also know thin women
Yes, I know, I can not complain. I know no diets, no figure problems, and I do not know what it feels like when you spot dents on your thighs in the mirror. At a height of 1.70 m I never weighed more than 56 kg. What sounds like the big dream to my friends, for me honestly has little to do with the feeling that I would call happiness. It's true: Because my body does not set calories for some reason I do not know, I do not have to restrict myself a bit. I eat what I want and when I want. I do not know what it feels like to have bacon rolls, but I honestly do not think it's that bad. In any case, I believe that I would not behave differently if I were chubby, I like to eat it too much. Of course I can not know it. And woe to me when I say that aloud. An opinion is not mine at this point.
As a thin person you are not automatically angry
If my friends ask me if I can see the three pounds they have gained, I have to adjust. Since weight was never an issue for me, I just do not perceive it in others. It would have to be at least ten kilos more before I notice a change in others. And then, frankly, without any rating. I would never define people about the number on the scale? but that's exactly what the others expect from me. Recently an old friend told me that she would never go swimming with me. She is ashamed of me in the locker room and does not want to know what I think about her butt. That made me really sad, because I have never thought about her butt and find my girlfriend wunderhübsch. I thought she knew that.
I'm not a fair game for comments
Yes, I also know stupid days. Then my butt does not bother me, but for example my stress skin. I will never have super clean skin. It's just that, and sometimes it bothers me, yes. So I can understand what it's like to quarrel with yourself and your body. But what I can not understand is the opinion, one should insult, comment or exclude thin people to their heart's content. I can not count how many times I say "Oh, what do you know about it?" was excluded from conversations, how often I have been referred to as Klappergerüst, Brett or Barbie or how many times was assumed to me, I would certainly count calories. That I certainly do not, is then observed suspiciously, if I strike at the buffet. Sometimes I make an effort not to go to the bathroom immediately afterwards. Of course, I know what they would all think ...
Body Positivity must apply to all
The Body Positivity movement is great. To accept oneself as one is and not to constantly stress about one's body does not depend on any culturally shaped ideal. There are countries where I would definitely be ashamed of my butt and my girlfriend would be the one who has no idea about figure problems. I'm not ashamed to be ashamed of myself. And that should not be done by anyone who may not have 90-60-90 measurements. Yes, I know, I have a good talk. And yet, I'll just give me that opinion. Because what it is like to be criticized, mocked or rated for his body, that's what I know. I firmly believe that we can all be more relaxed with others when we are more relaxed with ourselves. Butt or not. Pimple or not. When we talk about Body Poitivity, it's not allowed to have permission from size 40 onwards. I too want to be able to love my body and never want to hear that curvy women are more beautiful than me. I am who I am. And you are you. We are both beautiful. Each in their own way.
