Only if he accepts these 3 things does he really love you
You have your own goals
You have career goals, would like to go abroad for a few months or train for a marathon? If your partner really loves you, it will help you realize your dreams. He is not trying to press you into a life template? because he wants you to be happy. Never give up your goals, for no man in the world!
You have your own style
You like the fancy, colorful tights you wear? That's good, because they belong to your personality. It's not about your partner not being allowed to criticize here and there - that's fine. To accept your style means much more: Your partner should not question your personalityeven if you are completely different than other women.
To love you is to love you. Your appearance, your humor, your way of smiling ... all that makes you look and it would be a pity if you lose it. If he constantly criticizes you, then you should ask him: Why are you actually with me when you do not like so much about me?
You have your own friends
He does not like your friends? All right, but that does not change the fact that YOU like to spend time with them. If he does not accept that you have your own life with your own social environment, he will take you a piece of freedom. Always remember: A stable circle of friends is worth gold! Because if the relationship breaks down, it's your friends who catch and comfort you.
