The ABC of feelings: hate

As the hatred of an individual, I am always born of a destructive situation, mostly of traumatic violence or separation and loss experience that has overwhelmed people. When people are unable to flee from a helpless situation, to hide or to fight against the threatening without being able to change the situation, destructive hatred can arise. This hate wants to destroy the source of the feelings of powerlessness and often destroys the hating person himself.

Oh yes, I can: destroy the people I capture! I am tough and long-lasting. What I have good and useful in me, is usually only shortly after my birth available, if I turn as self-defense against overpowering. But the longer I'm active, the more I lose sight of this aspect. I nourish myself. I am self-reliant, changing my goals, beating myself - and finally destroying the people I have seized by devouring them, destroying their whole lives, and using all their powers. I'm always stronger than her other feelings if I'm not stopped.

Worst of all, I hate collective hatred. When I join forces with other hate-doers, we become a horde whose violence knows no bounds. No matter whether we rage against foreigners, women, Jews, etc. We can only be stopped with counter-violence.

What I'm afraid of, I'm not sure. I think I do not know any fear. Above all, I'm not afraid of reason. Reasonable arguments amuse and spur me on. I do not need any arguments, I only need victims. As collective hatred, I only fear counter-violence, police, consistent resistance or solidarity, etc. But I get weaker when the people I occupy are deprived of their leaders.

Even as an individual hate, I do not like it when I'm stopped. Sometimes it stops me when someone calls me what I am. Often, however, more is needed. It unsettles me when I'm confronted with how I destroy the people I'm taking. I hate to go back to my birth, to the powerless experiences that have brought me into the world. Only a few succeed in bringing me back to that, because then I would disappear and therefore I resist everything I have with everything. I fear therapists.

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