Rico, 38, Callboy: "What women want from me - except sex"
It is not easy to be a dream manand if only for a few hours. As an escort I have to be eloquent, charming and uncomplicated, have something of an actor and a psychotherapist in one. Actually, I'm a product manager, but in the part-time job I've been working for a good ten years with an escort agency.
Two hours with me cost 400 euros, on average I am booked for four to five hours. The women often ask my agency for a particular man who is interested in culture or appreciates a romantic meal. This is usually more important to them than a six-pack, even if an athletic body of course does no harm. I accompany many women to the theater, the opera or a fancy restaurant. Who likes to do it alone? The good thing is: I do not have to feign interest in it, it's also fun for me. Financially necessary I do not have the job, for the money I was with the Escort never.
The customers: self-confident, successful, demanding
Most of my clients are between 30 and 50 years old and earn above average marks as businesswomen, doctors or boutique owners. These ladies are often well-known in society, they have a responsibility in the job, they can not simply rip open a man for a night in the next club. Many also lack the time to meet someone. The women book me because they want to show themselves in public with an attractive companion that flatters the ego.
After separations, I also appear as a new partner. This strengthens the women's back, some also want to make her ex so jealous. Before that, we of course agree on the most important points: where did we meet? Who works where? For more intricate questions, I cleverly change the subject or challenge my partner to dance quickly.
Sometimes it's just about sex
Of course, there are still the classic wives who want to spice up their boring sex life. In their marriage, sex is often retracted or no longer exists. With me they fill up new desire for at home. In my profile is that I'm very persistent in sex, a callboy must have a little more than an "average" man. Above all, I must not think of my own pleasure, but must always put the customer in the foreground.
My job is to pamper the women, without any obligation. The clients are often very self-confident, saying what they want in bed, but do not want to teach anyone else. They have to do enough work in everyday life and in the job, now they just want to drop. And when you talk to them, they ask what they think and how they are doing, looking them in the eyes - then they drop relatively quickly.
Wanted: The strong shoulder to lean on
An estimated 30 percent of my customers are looking for only a conversation partner and companion - without sex. There are women who complain to me about job problems and loveless partners, with me they find a shoulder to lean on. I understand for all. There is a lot about human knowledge and experience, you can not run any program. It is not difficult for me to give the women the feeling of being desired. Anyway, a man can only pretend something bad: If nothing works, then nothing works. Fortunately, that has never happened to me. Whether a woman weighs five kilos or not, I do not care. And all my customers so far have been sympathetic and well-groomed.
Theoretically, there is certainly the risk that you will fall in love, but I do not think that will happen to me. I think that would be unprofessional. I am married, my wife knows about my job, and he has nothing to do with my feelings for her. And I do not think that a customer wants to fall in love with me. Many of the women enjoy the non-binding nature of such encounters.
With a Callboy, there are no relationship problems. Nobody wants to burden that. Basically, I only offer wellness, soul and body inclusive. And something that most men apparently lack: time. This is real luxury nowadays.
