One Night Stand: The 10 Most Important Rules!
The drinks are good, the music fantastic and then, all of a sudden, he just stands there: that outrageously hot guy who looks like an actor, but in reality has never been in front of a camera. Wow! And then, hard to believe, he comes over, compliments us, and engages us in conversation. After a while, he says something like, "Pretty crowded here, do not we want to go somewhere where it's quieter?" Bingo! For what does that mean, just about every woman knows: The man does not hesitate long. He wants to have sex! Without obligation and best immediately. Is there still the question "To me or to you?" and finish!
Sure, a one-night stand can be pretty hot if it's the right man. However, there are also some stumbling blocks, that can quickly turn the sex adventure into a disaster. You should pay attention to these ten sextuples.
1. One-Night Stand Rule: Do not expect anything!
Try to remember the best sex of your life. It was probably not the first time with this man, was it? Familiarity makes sex better: Because then we know what turns the other on, and have the courage to express their own wishes clearly.
For that reason alone, one-night stands are rarely the total sexual fulfillment, even if it is claimed differently in books and films. So do not set high hopes in spontaneous super-sex - unfortunately they are often disappointed.
Even less should you expect the man to become love for life. Yes, they exist, the relationships that have emerged from one-night stands. Much more common, however, are one-night stalls that never turn into anything except a one-time thing with mediocre sex at best. Without creative sex positions from the Kamasutra and multiple orgasm!
2. One-Night Stand Rule: Be picky!
A small dive makes you relaxed. An adult intoxication unrestrained. Not infrequently you wake up the next morning next to a guy who is quite embarrassing when you look at light. Therefore: keep your head clear - and be picky! Even if it is just a one-time experience and it should not be the big love.
The ex-boyfriend, the best buddy and the friend of the best friend are taboo for a one-night stand. Because we know very well: That only gives trouble. Also: Stay away from completely drunk Guys, where nothing runs anyway. Save the man - and yourselves! - this shame!
3. One-Night-Stand-Rule: Smooch, what the stuff holds!
Everyone is always talking about sex. At the same time we miss other things at least as much, if we have just no friend: talks. Nearby. And above all: kisses!
A one-night stand is the perfect opportunity, just snapping around unrestrained again. Especially since the sex usually does not hold what you expect from him anyway.
4. One-Night-Stand-Rule: To you - and to me!
For the one-night stand in your own home speaks a lot: you save a long way home, can make-up and brush your teeth, the next morning there are fresh underwear and guaranteed the favorite yoghurt in the fridge.
But also "to you" has its advantages: You do not have to be ashamed, if at home dirty laundry is on the floor, it is wonderfully anonymous, you can make the finish, whenever it suits you. And has the unique opportunity a look into the male soul toss: Tell me how you live, and I'll tell you who you are.
So, do you want to be the star guest of the evening, or are you more concerned with comfort? Decide on your mood! And if you do not want this suspicious guy to know your address? Then: neither to you, nor to me!
5. One-Night Stand Rule: Prevent - Condom!
Exchanging clear glances in the bar, snogging wildly in the taxi, tearing off one another's clothes in the corridor - and then he says: "You, I have nothing with me." Pretty sobering. The smart woman therefore ensures even for condoms and deposit them in your nightstand or purse.
And if he - feeling brake, latex allergy - is not on condoms? Then you go, unread things (or throw it out, depending on). Using condoms is simply the top priority of the one-night stand rules. We probably do not have to tell you that, but in the intoxication of hormones you never know ...
The pill is of course no excuse for giving up on condoms. Who wants to take chlamydia, gonorrhea or HIV as a souvenir from his one-night-stand?
6. One-Night Stand Rule: Throw Him Out!
Men often fall into immediate deep sleep after sex. If you want to get rid of your one-night-stand now, there is not much to do with subtle allusions.There are only two things to help: either to say clearly beforehand "I would rather wake up alone tomorrow morning." Or completely afterwards charming to call him a taxi.
If you do not, threaten a snoring guy in bed who might steal the blanket. And in the worst case cramped "Do you want coffee or tea?" - Conversations, when the guy looks hungry in the morning. You are not a hotel!
7. One-Night Stand Rule: Do not Stay Overnight!
Who wants to dress again after the sex and go home? Where it is so comfortable in the other's bed! And besides, you could go on right after waking up, where you just left off ...
What seemed like a good idea at night looks very different the next morning: Questions like "Where am I and who is the guy next to me?" are not suitable to beautify the start of the day. And then toothbrushes, fresh underwear and other personal belongings are miles away ... So, if you have landed with him: the best before dawn out of the apartment and home!
8. One-Night Stand Rule: Say thank you!
Silently and secretly disappearing while he is still asleep is the easiest option. Of course it only works if you went to see him - and it's not really polite. The sovereign lady says "Thanks for the beautiful night" before she leaves (unless it was really horrible).
Everything beyond Is a matter of taste: Just because you've exchanged body fluids, you do not have to do the same with your phone numbers. And if you do not want to meet the guy for a coffee or make friends with him on Facebook, just say it. Never let a man push you to something. Having sex with him does not commit you to anything!
9. One-Night Stand Rule: Do not talk about it!
A gentleman enjoys and keeps silent. At one-night stands, that's also true for us, if only for the sake of fairness: after all, we do not want him to blab our sexual preferences in front of his buddies.
So far the theory. But to be honest, it's just too much fun to discuss the last adventures with the girlfriends. Of course, we would never admit that to men. But here is: If it is very intimate or embarrassing things, you should rather only very tell good friends - and only if they do not know the man personally.
10. One-Night Stand Rule: Do it Again!
The guy is a total failure? He has hair on his back and smells funny? He fell asleep in your bed and then talked at breakfast extensively about his back problems? Kamasutra? Are you kidding me? Are you serious when you say that! And fun = zero?
No reason to swing the never-again-owl - there are a lot of interesting men out there waiting. So: take a deep breath, check off as experience - and try again!
