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April 29, 2024

Men tell: That's what makes you women totally unsettled!

It's no secret that women can sometimes intimidate men. But with what? What makes the masters of creation so unsettling? Max and Jakob, the authors of "Best Friends - When Men Talk About Women, Sex, and the Meaning of Life" are Unwrapping.

1. When a woman is very beautiful

There are simply women who look at men and they just can not breathe. That they are blocked when flirting, that's quite logical.

2. If she is very eloquent

You're breaking the fine art of rhetoric when you're arguing with men? Then realize that it can scare you away at first. Because: It shows them their own deficits.

3. If she is very direct

Feels like men getting peppered around the ears in a table tennis match.

4. If she is perfect

If a woman has the potential for anything imaginable (one night stand, relationship, marriage ...), then a man gets nervous - and behaves strangely.

5. When she discovers his dark side

You have the talent to expose unpleasant sides of men? Unfortunately, it is exactly these that men want to hide. If you dig them out, the conversation can take a difficult turn ...

6. If only she does not come with him - and gives no reason

Sure, men are starting to doubt themselves. Max and Jakob make it clear in their book that an orgasm is no MUST for good sex - and should not be the ultimate goal. Rather, one should enjoy the sex itself. The authors bring a nice quote: "An orgasm is like a bouquet of wildflowers, and the bouquet is only formed if I collect the little flowers, Wegerand."

7. If she has too high claims

If a man believes that he can not live up to his expectations, he is totally blocked. The question "Am I good enough for you?" is a true flirt and Liebeskiller.

You want to read more about Max and Jakob? In their book "Best Friends - When men talk about women, sex and the meaning of life", the two chatter openly about love and relationship issues, 10 euros, Bastei Lübbe.