By this, couples recognize that there is something serious between them
You get to know each other, start writing, dating and seeing each other regularly. The first kiss, the first kiss of the tongue, the first time together holding hands through the city and, of course, the first time sex (of course, each one different). And suddenly you are faced with questions like "Are we looking for two or three rooms?", "Classic wedding or outdoor wedding?" and "Prefer a timeless or trendy first name for our kid?".
Huh, how could that happen? Respectively, where or what exactly was the point at which we from the dating phase into a partnership and were clear to us: So, now it gets serious!
More than 4,000 people interviewed
This is exactly what the dating and dating site "ElitePartner" wanted to clarify and has interviewed a good 4,000 people in an online survey. To anticipate one thing: the first sex does not seem to be very important to most ...
Which, according to the ElitePartner survey, is by far the most reliable signal for both men and women to be stuck with somebody: The own feeling! More than 50 percent of respondents said they just feel it when things get serious. What matters most to men, if they like Of course, spend your weekends with the other person (34 percent said that), followed by the notorious infamous Parents Meet (29 percent) and say "I love you" (28 percent). Interesting: This recognition criterion of a relationship that is the fourth most unequivocal for men, only came in seventh place among the women surveyed? whether that means that women put the magic words into their mouth more frivolously ...? What is more binding for the women (30 percent) of the study than for the men (23 percent), is the commitment to exclusivity? So, of course, one (s) stands by his word ...
All results of the ElitePartner survey can be found in the table (percentages, 4,056 adults were interviewed).
"Suppose you have not yet decided if you're stuck together: when do you feel in a relationship?"
| Men | women | Ranking men | Ranking women | |
| "You just feel it" | 51 | 54 | 1 | 1 |
| "When I'm introduced to the parents" | 29 | 35 | 3 | 2 |
| "If it's natural to spend the weekends together" | 34 | 35 | 2 | 2 |
| "If I get the front door key" | 27 | 30 | 5 | 4 |
| "If we agree or set exclusivity, no longer parallel to data" | 23 | 30 | 6 | 4 |
| "When I was introduced to friends" | 22 | 28 | 7 | 6 |
| "If I said 'I love you'" | 28 | 23 | 4 | 7 |
| "When we go on holiday together" | 19 | 19 | 8 | 8 |
| "When we write or talk on the phone every day" | 15 | 15 | 9 | 9 |
| "After the first sex" | 14 | 10 | 10 | 10 |
| "If we post a common photo" | 9 | 8 | 12 | 11 |
| "After the first kiss" | 12 | 8 | 11 | 12 |
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