6 Instagram errors that threaten your relationship
1. spam your own account with couple content
If we constantly document our relationship on Instagram, we'll do double damage: We are busy with our mobile while we would rather spend time with our partnerand we annoy our followers. No one has to (or would like to ...) see us 24/7 lying on the couch with him, going for a walk, drinking coffee or cooking. Sure, we can send a few impressions of our relationship here and there in the story or post a common photo, but sharing everything with the followers is not possible? after all, a partnership always includes two (and not who knows how many followers).
2. Use coated kitsch hashtags
If we then post a deliberately selected couple's photo or a photo of the partner, we should please stop one thing: love lard like # love heaven # for each other or #loveofmylife. On the one hand, this can scare or pressurize the partner if he is different in this respect from us, On the other hand, this is really embarrassing when the relationship eventually comes to an end, especially when our followers ask us in personal messages, what has become of the #loveofmylife.
3. Ignore each other
Imagine that: both have an Instagram account, but interact with each other NULL. No likes, no comments, no cheating. That can not be right! That would almost be like living together but not talking to each other. Social media is now part of it, so should we go into our partner? not like Instagram is our bedroom, but already lovingly. Just as we handle each other in the café.
4. Hide partners
If we have agreed to keep our relationship a secret, okay, but if not, we should also let Instagram know that our partner exists, That can be a link, a mention in the caption or just a photo of him or us both, which we post on our account (ideally, of course, with his consent). Because if it does not occur in our Insta life, this can easily unsettle our partner.
5. Follow the ex
Being friends with the ex is rarely a good idea. And the same goes for a relationship on Instagram. If one of them has decided to answer the question "Shall I quit?" With "yes", is a clear cut the best for everyone involved? Alone, so that both can get through the separation phases okay. But checking out the ex on Instagram, when we're already in a new relationship, will probably not please the current partner ? All we have to do is imagine that he is still following his ex. Not so cool, right ?!
6. Focus on Instagram instead of the partner
Even if we spared no one with a couple's junk: If we spend time with our partner, we should really engage each other and not look non-stop on the phone. Sure, we can look here and there to see what's going on on Instagram, especially if we hang out with our friend anyway. But this rule applies to our partner as well as to family and other friends: Who stands before us, should always come first, If real life requires our attention, Instagram has to wait.
