5 things that make duration singles wrong
One thing in advance: If you are a single for a long time, you will not go wrong! Because no matter how hard you try. Unfortunately, it is not always in your own hands to find the great love. Nevertheless, we are not a victim of our fate and can do a lot to help our luck on the jumps. These mistakes should avoid singles in any case.
1. Look in the wrong place
Sure, who does not go to places where many singles are, minimizes his chances of great love considerably. There is nothing wrong with going to a single party. And yes - even online exchanges like Parship or Elitepartner (or Tinder!) Can help to find a partner. Who's not tried it, has already lost!
2. Always have the same pattern
"I always want the ones I can not get" - is this phrase familiar to you? You start having affairs with forgiven or unreachable men who at best stop you to use you as a "side job"? Stop it! At some point you have to consciously decide to take other paths. Experiment: Go out with a man you would never have otherwise. Maybe something surprising will come out ...
3. To be critical
The nose too big, the ears too long, the glasses too thick ... who searches the hair in the soup, always finds something. Sometimes it's good to question yourself: Bin I because perfect? And is not it good to have rough edges? If it is not love at first sight, it can still crackle on the second, third or fourth date. Just do not write off anyone too fast!
4. Hide yourself
Hello, I am sitting on my couch and waiting for you! Of course, nothing can be done with this attitude. Likewise, if one shuns events (read: humans) - or always keeps only in the background. Dare to be the center of attention, if only in small groups. You are there, you are single and you are great!
5. To be undecided
Find? I like it now or not? Should I file it again or shoot it? If you do not know what you want, the others will notice it too - and withdraw. Stand by your decisions and give a date in case of doubt a chance to cancel shortly before the end.
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