Wedding faults: Before that, brides are the most afraid
Dinosaurs crash free wedding, a tornado sweeps away the tents before the bride's sister can deliver her wedding speech, or Star Wars bad guys appear uninvited at the garden wedding. Such catastrophes are becoming more popular with newlyweds? as motives for her Wedding-Attack-style wedding photos.
But what could really ruin a bride's day of honor? That's what ElitePartner wanted to know.
Well 4,000 people interviewed
In an online survey, the Dating Portal has asked internet users: "How bad are you finding the following things, supposing they would happen at your wedding?" A total of 4,052 adults rated the scenarios proposed by ElitePartner on a scale from catastrophic to not so bad? and as always, women and men were quite divided on many things.
Women seem to be more sensitive to wedding dramas than men
In general, significantly more women found almost all wedding faults "catastrophic" or "very bad" than men, Only two of the 15 points made more male respondents afraid than female: that the wedding night could be canceled (we refrain at this point the "typical!") And that the guests would not remember the wedding. The former would be absolutely terrible for 40 percent of men, but only for 35 percent of women. The latter would extremely disturb 19 percent of male respondents and 17 percent of female respondents.
The main thing, the guests have fun
For both women and men the biggest wedding disaster: the guests are not having fun! 70 percent of women and 58 percent of men would ruin their most beautiful day of life. For almost as many respondents (women: 66 percent, men: 56 percent) it would be very bad to catastrophic, if the guests would cuddle ? So your own wedding should please everyone else.
Only in third place of the biggest wedding faults, at least among the women interviewed, ended up a scenario that does not primarily concern the well-being of the guests: The day gets so stressful that you can not enjoy it yourself (Women: 61 percent, men: 47 percent). After all, there is a very reliable and simple measure against this concern: to worry less about how the wedding arrives at the guests, and concentrate more on himself and his sweetheart!
All results as well as the ranking for the answers of the men can be found in the table? The percentages indicate how many of the 4,052 participants rated this answer "catastrophic" or "very bad".
women | Men | Ranking men | |
The guests are not fun. | 70 | 58 | 1 |
There is friction between the guests. | 66 | 56 | 2 |
The day is so stressful that we can hardly enjoy it. | 61 | 47 | 4 |
There is no party mood. | 56 | 49 | 3 |
Important family members or friends are missing. | 55 | 45 | 5 |
I do not look as good as I imagined. | 51 | 22 | 14 |
Our families and friends do not get together. | 48 | 40 | 6 |
The wedding exceeds the planned costs significantly. | 48 | 40 | 6 |
I do not like the wedding photos. | 46 | 38 | 10 |
At the wedding hardly emotions come up. | 45 | 28 | 12 |
The guests go too early, the wedding is over too soon. | 45 | 40 | 6 |
One of the guests steals the show. | 38 | 28 | 12 |
Surprises and speeches are not tailored to us. | 38 | 34 | 11 |
The wedding night is out. | 35 | 40 | 6 |
The wedding is not remembered by the guests. | 17 | 19 | 15 |
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