Dead vagina syndrome: orgasm problems because of vibrator?
A dead vagina? Sounds pretty good dramatic, If you want to believe the rumors, but it is synonymous. Especially in the network, the term has been appearing again and again for quite some time. Women who can masturbate very often with the vibratorno longer come to orgasm, especially not with the partner - so the thesis behind it. A nurse's tale or really true?
Dead vagina syndrome: too much is too much?
As sex therapist Heike Melzer explains in an interview with Tina Molin of "Happy Vagina", there really is the creepy phenomenon.
"Because sex toys belong to the sexual super-stimuli, Once conditioned on them, it can be hard to come by partnering with tongue, penis or hand in partnership sex, "says Melzer.
The reason: When often the vibrator comes to the Eisatz, get used to theReceptors of the clitoris the strong stimuli with which the natural partnership stimuli can not keep up.
How much is really too much, however, varies from woman to woman. Basically, this is mainly due to the frequency and duration of vibrator use together against which the partner no longer arrives. Honestly, with all the high-tech toys out there, no wonder. Non-contact stimulation through over or under pressure, various art penises, anal plugs in all colors and vibration modes - so the erotic shops offer a colorful potpourri of pleasurable possibilities in terms of masturbation. And let's face it: the sexual hands-on mentality The modern women have a lot of their own.
Just go away with the Devil Toy: Do we have to ban the vibrators now?
No no, before everyone disposes of their favorite toys, here comes the all-clear: So that it does not come to the Dead Vagina Syndrome, it's enough Use of vibrators to limit something, As with so many things, here too applies: The dose makes the poison, Melzer even assumes that masturbation with the little sex toy to a Habit with reward character can be combined with porn, one or the other behavioral dependence and appropriate partnership conflicts can lead. On the other hand, there are women who need the stimulation of a vibrator even when having sex with the partner to even come to a climax.
How do you prevent Dead Vagina Syndrome?
Basically, self-satisfaction is considered healthy and contributes to many women balanced libido at. But if you realize that you become insensitive, a numbness occurs or the sex with the partner is no longer satisfactory, only helps:
- Vibrator fast
- more often use "manual operation"
- more sex with the "right" partner, less masturbation
And if it is already too late?
The good news: Sensitivity can come back again. Heike Melzer then advises thatSexual super-stimuli For a certain period of time to renounce, But not every conditioning can be undone.
"The brain works according to the principle:" What fires together, wires together? "Not all of the nervous networks that are formed are reversible, but the little sex toys pave their way into partnership-like sex and with the necessary self-confidence, they are also doing well in the sexual act for two, "says Melzer.
As always, it is the healthy middle ground and one here too adequate dose, Nobody has any idea, if the greatest toy with the vibration of a sledgehammer does not Effect more on the clitoris Has. Better shift back up and up manual change. From time to time, of course, the wand ran.
