These 10 things are MUCH more important than sex in a relationship
From three times a day to three times a month: in a long-term relationship, sex life rarely stays at the same level. Some couples even have a complete doldrums in bed. Many relationship experts warn against just accepting that. Sex and intimacy are important for a partnership, because they strengthen the coexistence.
The secrets of a long relationship
The two researchers Dr. Meg John Barker and Prof. Jacqui Gab come after decades of research with long-term couples to another result: In "The Secrets of Enduring Love"
Now released in the US and UK, they contradict the assumption that sex is the secret of a long relationship.
Instead, they list ten other points that should make a significant contribution to staying happy as a couple. It is important to consider all of these aspects, as it were, in order to have a stable relationship.
Well then - here is the memorization list:
- laugh together
- Sharing values and interests
- be best friends
- be caring and take care of each other
- give each other security
- be happy
- trust each other
- maintain a close relationship
- listen to each other and talk to each other
- be in love and stay in love
