Hairstyle Trick for Mothers: How He Can Help You with Upbringing

No question, actually the life with children is colorful and excitingly beautiful. But mothers have to face so many challenges every day that all the stress can be too much. Pressure on the work, the laundry mountains grow, the bank annoys, the children do not clean up and for Mama there is no peace at all ... A mother can freak out and become a little louder than she really wants to.

After that many mothers are plagued by bad conscience. Most of the time the children can not do anything for our excessive demands and actually we would like to be mothers always friendly and patient with our children. Not so easy sometimes. But for just these moments, a mom-blogger from the US has developed the "hair tie trick"!

And this is how the mom-trick works against the bad conscience:

When you wake up in the morning and start your day with your kids, tie five hair ties around your left wrist.
Make sure they are comfortable to wear. If your child or children are out of the house, such as at kindergarten, you can pull off the ribbons. When your children come back, you put them back over.
Every time you become loud, angry or unfair to your child, one of the hair ties moves from the left to the right wrist.
Throughout the day, you try to make good your loud and unfriendly words with words or deeds. For example, you can read to your child, dance with him, paint with him, hug him, or tell him how much you love it.
Each time you and your child share such a beautiful moment, one of the hair ties from your right wrist may move back to the left wrist.
The goal of the day is to have all five hair gums at the end, or again on the left, "good" wrist.

The mom blogger who invented the hair tie trick, he helped a lot. She writes:

I did not think this trick would work, and I feared I would become more and more of that angry everyday mother over time. But it still works months later. Instead of being angry and frustrated, I can treat my children much friendlier and more affectionately.

The trick is based on the psychological 5: 1 principle according to Professor John Gottman, who assumes that for every negative interaction, it needs five positives to balance them.

We find: the hair tie trick is definitely a great idea to be mindful of ourselves and our children and to keep our eyes open for loving gestures, even if everyday life is once again over our heads. Because every word of love and gesture makes the stress and hectic pace of our families a little less.