"Cushioning": This dating trend is the very last!
Whether hyping, pigging or ghosting? nasty dating trends are now so many. And while you're still in the process of understanding what's behind all the vile stitches, another one is making its rounds: cushioning. What that means?
Cushioning? Two is Better
Who operates "cushioning", which is probably very afraid of being alone? and no conscience. Because behind the dating scam is a form of emotional fraud: whether the culprit is stuck with someone? he holds a "reserve" or a "cushion" (in English "cushion") ready. And not only theoretically. He flirts and dates alongside to accumulate a selection of "gap fillers". Some already use cushioning during the dating phase? and meet with several people at the same time. After all, you never know where the journey is going and if the air is not out fast.
How should you handle it?
If you find out that your date or friend is multi-tracked, there's really only one option: send him to the desert. Because he uses your feelings (and those of other women) shamelessly to take advantage of it. At least, if the dating phase gets more serious, do you have a right to be the only one? Unless you have an open relationship. In that case, the rules will be written very differently anyway ...
