Better than sex! 10 positions from the Kuschelsutra
A gentle touch, gentle kisses, loving pats and great feelings - we all feel the need for the most beautiful thing in the relationship: cuddling. Because when we exchange tenderness with the loved one, the cuddly hormone oxytocin is released - a hormone that is also released during orgasm.
Cuddling is the gentle sex
Men do not like cuddling but only "right" sex? Nonsense, most of them also love gentle eroticism. First a soothing massage, a few caresses and then snuggled close to the partner cuddled. What is better?
The instructions for cuddling
A guide for tenderness? If you shake your head about that, think briefly about the Kamasutra and the respectable library that could be filled with all sex counselors in the world. It's just fun to deal with the supposed minor things in life - and can be incredibly helpful.
Compared to sex cuddling is certainly no secondary matter. Because Everyone can cuddle, "You're never too thin or too fat, too small or too tall, too old or too young, too unmanageable or too agile," writes author Rob Grader in the introduction to the "Kuschelsutras".
Lovers cuddle, girlfriends hug, grandmothers cuddle their grandchildren. Even completely strangers look for cuddly parties after the physical proximity. There is a hug and a hug, no matter who. Even if the Fremdschmuserei has not really enforced: Who likes himself, wants to be close. Affection expresses itself in tenderness.
The Kuschelsutra is a loving tribute to tenderness, as well as the subtitle of the book. On the 117 pages, it's not about making a sport as extravagant as possible. Rather, it is one Encyclopedia of everyday cuddles with tips, in which cuddling position it cuddles and caresses even more beautiful. Also great for cuddly parties!
The cuddly classic
Classically beautiful: If people were puzzle pieces, they would probably put them together. If you are cuddling in bed, you almost automatically end up in this position.
Tip from the author: Do not place your arm under the partner's head so he does not fall asleep (the arm).
The 68 ½
68 1/2 sounds like a little less than 69 during sex. But as less is known, you should not underestimate this position. For example, it is great for not losing eye contact with all the cuddling.
Tips from the author: "This position is ideal for cuddling your partner with pleasure."
spoon
... or even the classic II. Because everyone knows the spoon position really, even without Kuschelsutra. Goes well to talk, even better but to fall asleep. Incidentally, the book also has the right Gäbelchen position in the book.
Tip from the author: "With your hips bent down and your knees bent, your bodies cling to each other perfectly."
Everytime on Sundays
Interlaced newspaper reading, of course, only works with a sufficiently large couch, but has a high coziness factor. And when the couch is smaller, it gets even more cuddly.
Tip from the author: Only tilt your knees, "you already have a clear view of the partner".
The favorite place
Reminds a little bit of back then with mom and dad: With worries and wishes you were already in the past best on the lap. Comfort and confidence can be picked up just as well at the partner.
Tip from the author: "He wraps his arms around her waist, supports her, and she leans her upper body against him."
The tête-à-tête
Quite akin to the position "Always Sundays". Perfect for very intimate moments and conversations. Please take care that your arms and legs are not knotted!
Tip from the author: "He places his legs to the right and left of her while she knees her legs and lets them rest between the two of you."
Oh la la!
Who cuddles so deep, can also immediately a "do not disturb" sign hang. The position also seems made for whispering something in the partner's ear. What, of course, is up to you.
Tip from the author: "If you cuddle so intimately in public, it can cause envy."
The braid
To cuddle Rob Hirder's definition also includes holding hands. Hands are not just there to stroke. You can also cling to each other well.
Tip from the author: The fact that the fingers are interlocked creates a strong and intimate connection.
The cuddly pose
For all those who like to stop walking and always want to show everyone that they belong together. Is especially often observed in fresh lovers.
Tip from the author: "Press your cheeks together as if you were posing for a photo."
The lifter
Himmelhochjauchzender a couple can not work. The lifter usually attacks you at moments when one of the partners wants to crush you with joy. Lifting is much more pleasant.
Tip from the author: "The whole thing is especially nice when it happens spontaneously."
You can find even more positions to cuddle here:
© Amazon"The Kuschelsutra: A loving homage to the tenderness "by Rob Grader, Schwarzkopf & Schwarzkopf Verlag, Price: 12,90 Euro.
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