BDSM: Fetish couple therapy is supposed to save marriage
Sleep in bed, unfulfilled, secret needs, lack of communication, emotions under lock and key. Really freaking out, crying out the frustration of the soul, letting everything out? No one does. Instead, just swallow it down and continue to turn the ever-same relationship. Or you just let it happen and go the unusual way: the hard way - for couples therapy with a dominatrix.
Save marriage with femdom
The American Lia Holmgren is such a dominatrix. But instead of getting down to business, it's rather cuddly. Holmgren describes herself as an intimacy and relationship coach, as she tells in an interview with the New York Post. Their Approach: BDSM - Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism? - can save your marriage. Sounds logical - after all, a little fetish has not harmed anyone yet. Stupid only if only one of the partners has a crush on BDSM. But this is where Holmgren comes into play.
Breaking taboos for better sex ...
... in it Lia Holmgren sees her task: to lead couples, to communicate their fantasies. Then it can go up in bed again. After all, it is always good when the other one knows which buttons to press, instead of losing himself in wild fiddling. Holmgren therefore supports couples in their office in Manhattan in the first place to get into the exchange about fetishes. What's up? Who likes what? Are there similarities and what's wrong?
BDSM: First the theory, then the practice
You do not have to go right to the limit and actually try every fetish. Works often not so good, if only one necessarily wants. Holmgren therefore recommends a few books and pornography to get an idea of what might be pleasing to both. After all, the self-proclaimed intimate coach wants to improve the sex lives of couples and not drive them further apart. Sexy scenarios and classic Dirty Talk are therefore already a first step in the right direction - slowly grope to fetish, is the motto.
Communication is everything
It's not just about the exchange of preferences, needs and desires. Communication - above all about intimacy - creates trust. And so you can gradually establish one or the other fetish in your bedroom, without being intimidated by feelings of shame.
By the way: Holmgren does not just offer counseling sessions. If you have the necessary change, you can have the ex-domina personally change the bedroom. Cost point: approx. 22,000 euros. In addition, she also accompanies couples in "quite expensive"? Sex shops to choose outfits and toys with them. Well then, into the gambling paradise.
