5 things that change when you get married
Does one really feel different when one is married? Yes, for some things, yes. In addition to formalities such as name change and tax code, these 5 points change.
1. One feels more connected
Do you call yourself "man and woman", do you feel even more connected? and the relationship seems less finite. You see each other, sitting old and gray on a park bench. Holding hands of course. After all, it also means "until death separates us". That it is the divorce judge for every other couple, let's just ignore ...
2. You can fall into a hole
Ever heard of the Post Wedding Blues? At the same time, a low comes after the wedding? because the supposedly most beautiful day in your life is over. Sounds quite logical: After all, you are looking forward to the day of the days for months or even years. And maybe even as a little girl you've always set yourself the goal of getting married someday. When all is over, is there a void left? until you have a new project.
3. One thinks more about children
Not only the friends ask constantly, when young people come into the house (which can sometimes really annoying). You also ask yourself the question: Do we want a baby now? Through a wedding you will feel again an extra nudge in the direction of family planning.
4. It regulates the finances differently
As a married couple you need a common account, right? Many couples think about joint finances only after marriage. That can change a lot in the everyday organization.
5. One argues differently
Do you really do that? Yes! At least, such phrases as "then I'm just undressing!" not so fast anymore. After all, one is married now ...