Sometimes it just hangs by our attitude if we can not find a partner. We often underestimate the power of our thoughts and how much they affect our charisma.

Flirt expert Nina Deißler knows with what belief we increase our chances of finding a partner.

"I can get to know my dream partner everywhere and therefore I am open for encounters"

The principle behind this sentence: It helps to put off your own blinders and give people sometimes a second chance. The expert: "Why not make any person smile for a few days, get in touch with them, and accept and make any partner suggestion? You'll be surprised what happens."

You want to formulate your own belief?

Of course you can do that - choose a sentence that encourages you and strengthens your self-confidence. Well suited, for example, are "if, then" sentences. But it is important to believe the affirmations as well. "It does not help to keep telling yourself how great you are when you do not believe it yourself, otherwise you'll say twice as many times as it is stupid and that does not work anyway", says Deissler.

And what do I do with the sentence?

Say it once or several times a day. Loud or silent, in front of the mirror or on the couch. Before a date or in the subway. No matter. The more you internalize the words, the bigger your Effect! "You can increase from week to week," says the expert.

So, if that is, then Let's start today with our beliefs, right?

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In her book "Relationship Status: Complicated" gives Nina Deissler a lot more helpful relationship tips. Knaur Verlag, is there for 12.99 euros on Amazon.

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