The "Bachelor" reveals: So you get the man you want
If on television tens of women tear themselves around a guy, then he has to do more than just look good. And we can confirm: The new Bachelor has it, the sexy package! Every Wednesday (8:15 pm), Sebastian Pannek (30) is looking for his great love on RTL. We let him chat about dating: Sebastian, what could we score with you?
1. Choose the right place
For a start, Small Talk is certainly not bad, but if you really want to get to know a person, you should try to make the conversation more profound. Since it is sometimes difficult to find the right questions, I recommend a walk for the first date rather than a meal in the restaurant. A walk has the advantage that you can perceive much more and be inspired by the environment. This often leads to fluid discussions and you get to know each other better.
2. Do not pretend
The most important thing is to stay true to yourself! Does not matter! Are not you a diva or a doll? but just yourself!
3. Do not be too critical
Otherwise, a flirting is over before he starts. One should not be deterred by things that bother you at first, but actually do not care. Maybe there is a reason for his unclothed shoes ...
4. Be quiet a bit cheeky
If you still want to address a point of criticism, you can use it to make yourself interesting and to tease the man a bit. Example: "I've noticed your great eyes, BUT your unclean shoes do not work ..." (smile do not forget!) The man is at first surprised, but at the same time, interest is awakened? and he tries to retaliate. And you are already in conversation.
5. Look him in the eye
Keep in touch eye contact that shows that you are genuinely interested and interested in listening. Body language is also very important. So you can easily show the man that you enjoy spending time with him. An open posture, for example, works wonders. No man likes it when the woman is locked up.
6. Do not talk about others
Convinced with your own personality and avoid talking badly to other women. It's only about yourself!
7. Look for body contact
If the date is going well then dare to get in contact with your body. It does not have to be much, but a short touch (for example, when praising his great jacket) will definitely keep the man in positive memory!
The "Bachelor" Sebastian Pannek awards every Wednesday at RTL Rosen to his chosen ones.
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