New Love: Are you ready? Ask yourself these 5 questions!
Some take years, others only a few weeks, but it's always exciting: the first date after a breakup. After a period of rage, sadness and heartbreak, the cards are shuffled again ...
These five questions can help you to clarify if you are really ready for a new start in terms of love:
1. What do I hope for from this date?
This question is about tracking your expectations. Is it a casual flirtation, just sex or could it be more? Tip: The less you decide how exactly the date should run, the better. Exception: your personal no-gos.
2. Am I putting too much pressure on myself?
All friends are of the opinion that you should venture back into the dating jungle. The Singledasein sets you slowly. The honest question you should ask yourself: is it actually my own decision to back up? Tip: Too much pressure helps even more humor.
3. How do I respond to questions about my past?
The subject of the past is as sensitive as it is exciting: Therefore, it is good to think about how open or self-contained you might like to talk about this topic and what details you want to know. Tip: Less is more.
4. Is it about the person or about the dating as such?
Both variants are ok: Maybe you just want to distract yourself again or you are totally excited about your date? It's just important to be honest with yourself and the other, so as not to raise false hopes. Tip: be open for the encounter!
5. Am I really getting over my ex?
The classic: Actually, you have not finished internally with his last relationship. Who compares the new incessantly with the old, brings himself to the fun? and to really get to know a new person. Tip: be honest? first and foremost to yourself.
