• March 28, 2024

"Without humor, sex is almost unbearable"

"The two tragedies in a woman's life ..."

Psychotherapist Bernhard Ludwig has been providing a "Guide to Sexual Dissatisfaction" for years in his cabaret program. Whether penis size or fake orgasms: The seminar cabaret is not only funny, but also love life help. After the filming, the "Guidance on sexual dissatisfaction" is now also available as a comic. About bad sex and how it can also be good, speaks Bernhard Ludwig in an interview with ChroniquesDuVasteMonde.com.



"... the one, if the man does not know where the clitoris is ..."

"ChroniquesDuVasteMonde.com" Mr. Ludwig, why are so many people dissatisfied with their sexual life?

"Bernhard Ludwig" People are oversexed and underfucked. They see sex everywhere, but feel they themselves remain unsatisfied. They get the impression that others only have fun during sex. Nobody talks about what really happens in bed.

"ChroniquesDuVasteMonde.com" Most do not have bad sex, just think it?

"Bernhard Ludwig" Exactly. Too high expectations are the worst. That's why people kill themselves, get depression, have illness. When it comes to sexuality, it's time to get down to it.



"... the second one, when he finds her."

"ChroniquesDuVasteMonde.com" Who has the higher expectations, men or women?

"Bernhard Ludwig" I believe women. This is already due to evolutionary biology, because women have fewer eggs and must better defend. The woman therefore seeks the best possible partner. With my cabaret program and comic I screw the expectations back to a realistic level. After all, there are many ways to give vent to what is actually sexually achievable. Everyone has a unique sex life. You have to learn that.

"ChroniquesDuVasteMonde.com" Does humor lower the threshold for talking about sex?

"Bernhard Ludwig" Without humor, sex is almost unbearable. How do I talk about sex with my partner? In Latin terms? Without any level? I think humor is the best lubricant for sexuality. The comic is entertaining, but also one hundred percent a sex aid book.



"Everyone wants something different ..."

"ChroniquesDuVasteMonde.com" How does sex help work in comic form?

"Bernhard Ludwig" The book is best read with two colored pencils. She paints for the partner what is important to her and what she wants to talk about, and he does exactly the same with a second pencil. Then save both ten therapy sessions - by the way also find sex therapists.

"ChroniquesDuVasteMonde.com" And how can I become "good in bed"?

"Bernhard Ludwig" Unfortunately, we do not have a school where love is taught. The interest is absolutely given, at least among my viewers. How should the woman learn a good blowjob? There is no instruction manual down there. And vice versa exactly the same. You have to have thought through the sexual details in order to be really good in bed.

"ChroniquesDuVasteMonde.com" What do you think about books like Lou Paget's "The Perfect Lover"? Reading such books is the least I would expect. When a blowjob happens on level two and three, a man says "good". But there are also levels eight, nine and ten. When a man is looking for a partner, he decides whether to forget the phone number of a woman or is enthusiastic about her.

"ChroniquesDuVasteMonde.com"> Is not it pretty misogynist? How, for example, the proposal from the comic to swap dishes for a blowjob?

"Bernhard Ludwig" On the contrary, I believe that "sexual dissatisfaction guidance" is completely female-friendly. Out of 1,000 women, at most one complains that she finds the program misogynist. I often hear that the program and book are hostile to men. I think the facts are misogynistic or misogynist depending on your perspective. But they are just the reality.

Bernhard Ludwig: Instructions for sexual dissatisfaction. With illustrations by Günter Payr / Tim Jost Goldmann ISBN: 978-3-442-15484-5 Price: 7,95 Euro

Bernhard Ludwig

Bernhard Ludwig (born 1948) is a doctor of psychotherapy and successful for years with his seminar cabaret. The program "Guidance on sexual dissatisfaction" is also available as a movie. Other seminar cabaret topics include dietary madness and heart attack. For more information and event dates, visit www.seminarkabarett.com.

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