Infidelity: These 5 types of women are more forgiving

Actually everything is going well in the relationship. But then what happens can not happen: at a company party he ties in with the new colleague - and ends up in bed with her. Is everything over now? Not necessarily. There are women who can forgive their partner's misstep. And this includes above all these five types:

1. The Grateful

Life has its ups and downs, this woman knows exactly. She has experienced a lot, even difficult phases - and has always been through. The infidelity of the partner puts a stab in her heart, of course. But the grateful does not throw away any relationship. She appreciates what it means to have found someone to grow old with. Before the wedding altar, she promised him: I'll go with you through good times and bad times. And that stops them when he himself has broken his vow of allegiance.

You recognize yourself? Then consider: With your thankful attitude, you have many people ahead of you. You will find happiness in life easier. But thankfulness should not be subservience. For example, if the partner traps you several times, does not show any real remorse, or if the wound he inflicted on you is too big, it's time to say, "This far and not further!"

2. The addicts

The balance between "I need you" and "You need me" is not always balanced. There are women who focus more and more on their partner in a relationship, completely hide their environment. If the addict goes into crisis, the partner is their only stop - because the relationship with their friends and family has made them grind over time. A life without him? Inconceivable! If he lands in bed with another, the pain is great, but she can not separate from her great love. On the contrary, the addict starts to cling so as not to lose the partner. She says to herself: I am sad that he has betrayed me - but without him I am even sadder.

You recognize yourself? Then consider: A partnership without a certain dependence does not exist. If you place the partner too much in the center, it quickly becomes dangerous - not only if he goes alien. It is important to build a stable, social network beyond the relationship. So you can be better absorbed in case of separation. One should not forgive an infidelity, because it is not without him, but rather, because it is much more beautiful with him.

3. The Optimist

Now it hurts, but in a few months everything will be fine again! The optimist does not bang everything - but with her indestructible belief in the good she can deal with negative emotions. This type of woman is not resentful and always looks forward. If his apology comes from the heart, she also accepts it. Through her healthy self-confidence, the optimist is sure: That was a one-time slip-up. It is worth forgiving because we will be happy together again.

You recognize yourself? Then consider: Basically, you have the right attitude to life. Just be careful that you are not too good-faith in the matter approaches. He really regrets his misstep? Wonderful, then you have a good chance to be happy again. But if he does not make much effort to make up for his mistake, you should stop and ask yourself: Is he as much attached to the relationship as to me?

4. The uncertainty

People make mistakes - that's their credo. The insecure knows exactly: She too can come into the situation to land with another man in the box. Anyway, she dares to do a lot of negative things. This is mainly because she has little self-confidence. Mistakes from other people are therefore quickly absorbed. So too the infidelity. She wonders: Did I do something wrong? Did not I have enough time for him? Has our sex life fallen asleep? In the end, she believes that she is at least partially guilty - and therefore she has no right to part with immediately.

You recognize yourself? Then consider: If it comes to infidelity, it is always helpful to look: Are there things that we can do better in the future? But you should do that together with your partner. After all, it was he who cheated. Otherwise, it quickly happens that you lose yourself in your self-doubt and guilt - and the love comeback is going to be hard.

5. The devotional

This woman carries so much love in her - and she forgives out of love. The devotee makes happy when others are happy. She therefore likes to put her own needs behind her. So too, when he has gone astray. Instead of focusing on her own grief and anger, she uses her energy to understand his behavior and work on the relationship. Disconnect and give up? This is not the style of this fighter nature!

You recognize yourself? Then consider: It's great that you are always there for others and give your partner as much love as you can. However, if you realize that he is taking advantage of your good nature, you should pull the ripcord - because you have earned a man who treats you as well as you treat him.

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