How does Dirty Talk, Paula Lambert?
"You stallion, you!" Anyone who has already tried it knows: Dirty Talk is an art in itself, where you can grab it neatly. Especially people who have not yet established the playful chatting in the bedroom, quickly feel silly. Worst Case: While he pleasurably breathes dirty in the ear, he breaks out suddenly in laughter. No reason to hang up your career as a dirty talker right on the nail. Sexist Paula Lambert (known from the SIXX show "Paula kommt!") knows how to do it right.
ChroniquesDuVasteMonde: Paula, what's up at Dirty Talk?
Paula Lambert: It's all classically about Kopfkino. Tell me something dirty, and I start to develop fantasies. This stimulates and stimulates sex. Or he serves as a suggestion in telephone conversations, possibly even with happy ending.
When does Dirty Talk fit and when not?
Dirty Talk is like so much pure matter of taste. It depends on whether the partner is on it or not. It is quite embarrassing to think up wild stories, if that completely overwhelms the other and he can only say "Uh, really, I've never seen it like that before." It is also inappropriate, if one wants to have wild sex, the other but rather tender love. A little flair for the opposite is in demand.
What should one talk about?
The best thematically move freely, but for heaven's sake not in the cliché. "Give it to me, Tiger" does not offer much stimulation, but rather potential for amusement. One should always consider what the partner could find attractive. For example, does he have a thing for fast cars? Then you can think of a number in which you imagine having sex in the car. It also works well to describe to the partner what you would do if you were to touch him. Just to describe what you do without touching yourself is a great exercise anyway. Being precise in the choice of words - not thinking about yourself, but about what excites the other.
And you should whisper the dirty sentences in his ear or better say it out loud?
Just as it feels right. But shouting is usually inappropriate.
Sixx expert Paula Lambert ("Paula Comes") knows her way around sex
© sixxHow can one overcome oneself when one is shy?
It's best to start slowly, in a word. This can be a simple "faster" or "firmer" as it fits. Then you see how the partner reacts. Most people find it difficult to formulate needs at all. So you should not overstrain yourself.
Can you really learn Dirty Talk - or is it in the blood?
It's like singing. Some people just get better. Others not at all. But you can still learn it, even if you do not always hit all the notes.
Are there any rules for the Dirty Talk?
No, actually everything is allowed. But you should definitely refrain from bringing people like the mother into the game!
But now butter on the fish: With what sentences I bring him to the head?
I recommend: Nice to stay at simple things without a lot of bells and whistles. Hot sentences are about:
- "There should be more men like you"
- "You have a fantastic penis / tail"
- "Nobody makes me come like you"
- "Oh, God, if you keep this up I'll be right" (only if it's true and feels good)
- "You are so good in bed, no one gives me such pleasure"
Brings a dirty talk in the end really what?
Not everyone is in favor, not everyone likes it, but if done right, Dirty Talk offers a real chance to make sex life more intense. In sex, almost everything is psychology, so the head plays an enormously important role. You should definitely use it!
