Dating: Tips for Online Dating
Sign - the first step to happiness
DO Take your time. The internet is a wonderful place to meet other people. Provided you know what you are looking for. Should it be a non-binding infidelity, or are you looking for the man for life? Should your partner drive a bicycle or a limousine, and should he live in Wuppertal or New York? How old should he be and what films should he like? Before completing an expensive premium membership anywhere, look at the page: How likely is it that the man of your dreams advertises here? Most likely? Then go there.
TO LET Logging in anywhere to meet as many men as possible is not a good idea. Because there are unnecessary disappointments inevitable. After all, you do not want to get to know all the men in the world, but one that suits your needs. So sign up for only one or two platforms. Then you have enough time to concentrate on the interesting candidates and you have to disappoint less men with a cancellation.
your profile
DO A nice photo, a few appealing lines, that can cost a lot of time and headache - but the effort is worth it. After all, your personal profile is the only thing a man gets to see you before deciding whether he wants to meet you. A nice profile is like a good job or an advantageous outfit: it flatters you by emphasizing your strengths and turning your weaknesses into endearing features. You do not have to lie for that. But you do not have to put any of your weaknesses on the presentation plate.
TO LET "I do not know what I should write here, best, you can find out for yourself": phrases like these are neither interesting nor creative. They just show that you do not feel like thinking. Also a taboo: hobbies simply boring enumerate. Instead of "reading, nature and culture", you'd rather write down which three books are currently on your dessert, that you prefer to walk by the sea at night and get goose bumps in Mozart's string quartets. Individual formulations make you interesting and stand out from the crowd.
The first contact
DO Take a heart, do the first step. This may not be your style otherwise, but do not worry: men who hang around on the dating site can be of fundamental interest. And you do not have to look your favorite candidate in the eye. If you come across the profile of a man you find interesting, do not wait for chance. Most men are happy when they do not always have to start and will be happy to answer.
TO LET Randomly sent standard mails to all men who interest you. This is not only extremely rude, but also noticeable. Nobody will feel encouraged to respond to such a message.
Stylish cancellation
DO It is your right to break off contact with a man at any time. And it is his right to at least get a short, friendly email. Thank you for your attention even if he wrote you a single email and wish him well in his future search. After all, you also want to be treated when you get a basket.
TO LET Long justifications. If you do not feel like a contact, then you do not feel like it, ready. Save yourself long e-mail bills in which you justify your decision. Do not let a guilty conscience persuade you. It just can not work with everyone, and for sympathy or rejection, there are often no logical explanations.
write e-mails
DO Pay attention to spelling and grammar. You can only attract attention.
TO LET You are desperate, you are lonely, you want a man and most of all right now. And now another one comes to you, you find really nice? Take it easy. Nothing makes a man run faster than a woman who wants to bind him immediately and forever.
show emotions
DO Be open. Even if the man you write does not exactly fit your job description, maybe he deserves a chance. After all, he found you so interesting that he contacted you. And even if you should not marry him later, who says that you can not find good friends on a dating site?
TO LET Jealousy is out of place with online dating. You have to assume that every man who drives around there flirts with several women at the same time.He is there for that - and you should not handle it any differently. Talking about other candidates with someone whom you like is taboo. Should he do it anyway, stay confident and change the subject.
The first date
DO You wrote him an e-mail, he answered, you like him? Great, then get to know him. Of course, that's a leap into the cold, but the longer you wait, the more disappointed you may be if you finally meet him and he does not suit the eloquent, attentive gentleman you envisioned after his emails. And if he's a jackpot, any day you do not spend with him is wasted time.
TO LET 2 pm with Dieter in the Café, 3.30 pm with Jörg in the cinema and at 6 pm with Manfred Pizza? ? Forget? S. More than one date a day is not really there. Because the tighter your schedule, the less scope you have for the coincidences of love. And it would be a pity if you could not accompany a really interesting man on a spontaneous walk or not have the time to talk about your favorite movie with a second glass of red wine.
Find what you are looking for? Do not forget to log out!
DO You have found the man of your dreams? You are happy as a couple? Congratulation. Then the online search has an end now. Sign out of any dating portals, delete your profile, and spare other men from paying their attention in vain. It also belongs to the good sound that you refuse short-lived contact requests briefly, but politely.
TO LET Continuing to browse online platforms while they are actually taken is, of course, taboo. But we do not have to explain that to you, right?
