By this you realize that HE is dissatisfied in bed
Does everything work well in your bed? Excellent! However, it sometimes happens that only one feels the sex as fulfilling, the other but "suffers" in silence. Mostly not to offend the partner. That in itself is a laudable thought, but unfortunately it leads to a dead end. How should sex be an experience for both if you do not talk openly about it? If you have noticed these things recently, then there is some evidence that he is dissatisfied with your sex life.
1. He barely talks about sex - neither good nor bad
After sex, no "Wow, that was nice"? That does not have to mean anything. But if he does not comment on your love life, no wishes, then he has probably already concluded with the matter and switches to the "I do not care" mode. Fatal!
2. He rarely goes to bed with you in the evening
Usually you always went to bed together. Now he still has something better to do late at night - and he also leaves the bed on the weekends as fast as he can. Of course, he has little desire for sex and avoids situations in which he may need to give you a basket - because he does not want to hurt you.
3. He watches porn while you're in the apartment
Okay, okay. When men watch porn, it's not drama. Basically everyone. But if he's so in need of secretly surfing on YouPorn while sitting next door on the sofa, that's a big deal. And also shows clearly that he is missing something sexually.
4. He gets up after sex instead of cuddling
Some men are not at all after cuddling. But if your sweetheart actually belongs to the teddybears, it is already a statement, if he searches for the love game the distance. He may not even want to get into the situation of talking about sex or not showing that he is dissatisfied.
5. He is uninterested
You show him how to touch you, but he hardly cares? And otherwise he spares no effort to spoil you in bed? Could be, of course, that he is an egoist and cares only about his own needs. Could also be because he feels himself neglected and does not meet you in defiance. Childish, but it does happen ...
What can you do?
If you are worried that your partner is dissatisfied with your sex, you should openly address it. Do not accuse, but give him the feeling that it is perfectly okay to express his wishes. Make it clear to him that in the end, both of you will move on and that you will not feel hurt by it. After all, you get to know each other in a relationship over and over again.
