Abandoned? Then only these 3 pieces of advice will help
"He broke up," she sobbed into the phone and her voice you can hear that your girlfriend's tears run every second on the cheek. That she suffers like that, puts a deep sting in your heart. The best thing you can do now is to be there for you. But, what do you actually say when the girlfriend is just going through the lovesickness of her life? Somehow everything seems inappropriate. Almost, because this advice comes from the heart - and even if your girlfriend just blackened everything - sooner or later they will help her.
1. "Talk about your feelings!"
Give your girlfriend the feeling that she is allowed to cry to you anytime and as often as she likes. To free oneself from the grief of the soul freed - at least for a while. The worst thing she can do now is suppress her sadness. Because then it will take much longer to process the separation.
2. "Be good to you!"
Heartache is one of the most extreme feelings we encounter in life. Your girlfriend should now especially look at herself and allow things that she has not indulged in the past. Good food, wellness, new clothes ... all this will only seem half as nice. But it flatters the oh so angeknacksten soul. It's best to do these things together.
3. "Invent new!"
When one door closes, another opens somewhere - with this phrase you do not necessarily have to come to your girlfriend. But it is quite helpful to try to turn the negative energy into good. Sure, that's easier said than done. But there are some ways to get something positive out of the crisis. Maybe your friend can write songs or poetry, discover her esoteric side or finally start the new job the ex always used to be. It's best to work together to find out what new way to go.
