5 relationship mistakes we should have made by 30

Being in love the first time, the first kiss of the tongue, the first friend, the first true love (or at least what we thought ...)? Every woman has their own memories of that. But for almost everyone, they trigger both positive and negative feelings.

After all, in addition to all the exciting and beautiful things we associate with our first partnerships and partners, we all did a lot, which we afterwards regretted? and that's why today would not do more. Just to name a few examples ...

5 relationship mistakes that almost all times have (should)

1. brackets

Constantly talking to him, wanting to do everything with him and get the crisis, if he does not call a day ? Classic! And a very obvious result, combining uncertainty and self-doubt with great love and loss anxiety.

2. Purposefully make him jealous

Conspicuously inconspicuous flirt with someone else and only have eyes for how the man next to us is getting restless and annoyed ? those were the days! When nothing better came to us to assure us of his love and get his attention ...

3. Dancing to his tune

If he really wants sex, he just gets sex. He finds our favorite sweater unsexy? Put it in the trash! And we think it's great to watch football with his buddies. Oh dear, we have sometimes shown a lot of ability to suffer. But what's up ?! All people must be self-confident and authentic finally learn. For this we can stand up for us and our wishes today and know that this is what makes us his dream woman.

4. Stalking

Secretly check his cell phone and browse his personal belongings ? Well, nobody is really proud of that. But at the beginning of every relationship career there is learning to accept limits, to leave room for others and to become more secure and independent ...

5. Try to change it

If he just does his hair a bit differently, gets more sensitive and eventually discovers his weakness for drama series, then yes, he is my dream man and we fit together perfectly! Hm, yes, we think in part even today. But luckily we do not try to turn him into someone he is not. Not because we are less idealistic today than we used to be. But because we have now learned to love the imperfect and imperfect. At others? and to ourselves.